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Today, I will follow this series with a psychologist and psychoanalyst Rubens Maciel key talking points for the emotional development of a person. After all, the last day of information lead us to think, that parents are creating for our grandchildren? The cycle of life is amazing!

In my particular case, I can also think, with the father I had, until I’m healthy too. More than authoritarian, a tyrant! And psychoanalysis gives you …

I will begin and end with a sentence of psychoanalyst reassuring and disturbing at the same time: “The land that you should prepare to plant is in early childhood. And throughout the life course, you’ll be making, learning from experience. Now, a person who has had problems in early childhood will learn much less, much less fit in life, than he who did not. ”

Before explaining the factors present in the formation of one’s personality, psychologist and psychoanalyst Rubens Maciel was keen to stress: for psychoanalysis, a person can not be evaluated considering a direct cause and effect. That is, there is this: does this, what gives.

According to Rubens Maciel, “to the emotional development of one there are some features that are important, among many others that we do not know.” He called three of them as vital: family history, nature and history of the child’s life.

The analyst explained that the issue of family is very important in shaping the character. According to him, loving parents give the child the certainty of being loved and this enables him to believe that the world wants. “It sets itself a confidence that is loved the way it is, and that the world gets well. It is a very different attitude that says I am loved and I have to be a good boy to be loved, “he said.

The little loving relationships between parents and children generate much anxiety in children. And the systematic collection of a father immature, unable to understand and accept the child with their capabilities and limitations compromise the spontaneity of being in development. “The child is about to fulfill the wishes of those parents who are often unworkable because it is a chronic dissatisfaction of his father. So she tries, tries, but never okay, “he said.

Another vital issue for the formation of personality is the nature of the child. According to Rubens Maciel, children are destructive and constructive. They are born with a trait that interferes with the person’s personality. The most welcome constructive things that receive and retain within itself. The most destructive are unable or very difficult to receive and preserve them in what they receive.

According to the psychoanalyst, the child of the constructive nature works like this: “Mommy come here, suck me, then she likes me.” And so destructive: “Mom came here, gave suck, but first gave to my brother, and she gave too little, she wanted to stay here anymore.”

“You take two children, twins to the same treatment, one is never satisfied, always moaning, crying, angry. And the other not, be at peace, and quiet. In a good family, a destructive child can still have some good things and preserve. If it is destructive and the family is poor, the prognosis is very unfavorable, “he said.

And the third factor that influences the development of personality is the story of a person’s life. Some traumas have a negative influence. “You can be constructive, have had a good family, but suddenly lost his parents in an accident. Then go to an orphanage, is harassed because he is black or is Japanese, because for whatever. These are the traumas of life, “he said.

Rubens Maciel said that some factors can be barriers to emotional development. In some people, some aspects are able to halt the development, which would explain a person of 40 years with emotional age of 15.

The analyst explained that the first years of life are critical, but nobody is ready and finished at five, six years old. “The land that you should prepare to plant is in early childhood. And throughout the life course, you’ll be making, learning from experience. Now, a person who has had problems in early childhood will learn much less, much less fit in life, than he who did not, “he said.

I talked with a psychologist and psychoanalyst Rubens Maciel about the difference between functions and roles played by fathers and mothers for the proper development of the child. Not always, the maternal and paternal functions are performed by men and women who created or adopted children. These functions may be undertaken by others, making the role of father or mother.

Unfortunately, in my opinion, playing the mother has plenty of both. Some parents also, but it’s hard, you know any?

In the view of Rubens Maciel, there are no defined roles and functions for men and women, although there is a predominance of certain characteristics in each. “A healthy person is a person very rich and sensitive to perform the various functions,” he says.

It defines the roles of father and mother and those related to social and legal expectations regarding fatherhood. In his opinion, leaving the woman to the labor market brought the children closer to parents who were invited to participate in the care of offspring. But this is not the only explanation for the new tasks assumed by men.

The analyst believes that the dissemination of information on the importance of the role of the father, for good child development, is contributing to a new family organization, where men take on other roles and looking good to play the father role.

“This kind of information will causing some parents to become aware of it, and love for his son, wishing to have a differentiated participation. The affection is something that has been revered in recent years. You want to have a more harmonious family. But there is also the counterpoint, individualism, each will make his career. Are concomitant phenomena, sometimes opposing, but happen “he said.

Rubens Maciel said the father’s role begins in the first year, during which the baby is very mixed with mother. “When he feels that the mother is not fully available to her, there is a limit, even without knowing the existence of the father, she senses that there is something that not only she, the mother shares with some other thing it does not know what it is, “he said.

According to the psychoanalyst, this is an important function of the father, to show that the child is not the center of the universe, signals that a limit will occur early. “A threshold for what? The child’s desire to have control over the mother, being the main reference of the mother. I’m insatiable, and she’ll spend hours and hours giving me love, give me suck “, translated.

Rubens Maciel said that this prototype child persists throughout life. The difference is that in some people maturely presents itself, in others less so. “If you take an extremely jealous person, you will see that these infantile wishes are still in force, remain, in adulthood, too much,” he said.

The paternal function of setting limits is crucial for the necessary separation between mother and baby. In the process of maturation, the child understands that the mother is another person who has interests, needs and tasks that go beyond. If the father is near, the child realizes that he is present and plays a role here.

According to the psychoanalyst, the father role is to show the child that she can not be supplied by another human being throughout life. “She’ll have to fend for itself, will be alone. She who replace the chest with the finger, the pacifier, then over a toy, then for a friend then a girlfriend. Trade in your downtime at work. She will have to be productive to have a man or a woman, a companion. Then she will move from this position of dependence, passive, if it can mature. Going out for an active role, someone who will do these things in a proper manner, “he said.

For Rubens Maciel, a clear attitude of the father who sets the limits necessary for the child is put you to sleep in his own crib. It teaches that the bed of my mom and dad has no place for him

“This is the role of a parent or a third party. Not to be a father, a mature mother can fulfill the role of the father. And say, look, my son, Mom is watching TV, I take a shower, you stand there, “he said.

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This clip is a part of DBI program called CARE Care takes care of the educational needs of the children who are in the relief camps due to ethnic violence or in abandoned villages, unreached by any government schools.

Spreading a ray of hope, the CARE literacy programme began its operation in November 2001. Volunteers from Don Bosco Institute (DBI), Guwahati visited door to door to convince the parents or guardians of these unfortunate children to let their child avail quality education. CARE initially started 27 tuition centres where victims of the ethnic strife who do not go to schools or have left schools could come and learn. The number of centres has now increased to thirty-six. The total number of CARE teachers is now fourty-five, with some centres having more than one teacher. The teachers serving in these centres are mostly high school drop-outs who left studies because of economic constraints and belong to the village where the centre is located

The number of tuition centres has now increased to 38. The total number of CARE teachers is now 46, with some centres having more than one teacher. The teachers serving in these centres are mostly high school drop-outs who left studies because of economic constraints and belong to the village where the centre is located.

The CARE centres serve as bridge course centres for those young children (in the age-group of 5-8 yrs) who do not have a school within walking distance. After these children acquire the basics of literacy, they are mainstreamed into regular schools by the CARE teachers. At present, a total of 2,438 students are attending classes in these tuition centres

Since the parents of these children are illiterate, and economically and psychologically depressed, it is impossible to design a single, homogeneous implementation strategy to bring their children to the CARE centres. Below are the organizational approach designed to reach out to the deprived people and to promote literacy.

For some families, the admission of children in school facilitates the establishment of a routine. The commitment, parents are organized using the times of entry and exit to decide what the child will do at home and at school.

For me, on the contrary, when Gabriel entered the school, the times were messed up. I think for anyone who wakes up around 8 hours at 11.30, took breakfast and snack, and lunch is to have already gone too. Over the weekend, is completely different.

In my opinion, for both the lunch and for dining, the intervals between meals in schools are very short. Last year, for the class of Gabriel, the lunch was at 9 am and lunch at 10:40.

And this issue of time is not unique to his school. In general, lunch is before noon and dinner 18 hours before. In other stores I visited, was also well. And when I talk to other mothers about it, the organization is similar. The schools plan to the routine of the availability of cafeterias and staff, not the children need.

The President of the Scientific Department of Nutrition at the Brazilian Society of Pediatrics, Roseli Sarni, suggests a supper for the children who eat dinner early. It is not routinely recommended dinner at a school around 17:30, go home, sleeping in the car and go without eating anything else until the next day.

According to the pediatrician, the correct procedure to avoid a very long overnight fast is to establish more an evening meal.

She said the meal is a good opportunity to offer healthy foods, such as a vitamin in fruits without sugar. Depending on the age, the child takes the glass or bottle. Roseli Sarni argues that this is the ideal alternative as it helps the child to meet your needs for calcium, vitamins and minerals.

“The prolonged fasting, even though night is not recommended at any age. The smaller the child, the lower the glycogen stores, then the child should be fast, “he said.

The pediatrician said that the need for that meal before bedtime varies according to age. For children under two years, the dinner is “essential” because the rate of growth to that age is higher. And a child of one year should not be fasting 12 hours.

Roseli Sarni stressed the importance of cleaning teeth before the child sleep, and the recommendation that this power is at least two hours after dinner.

Psychopedagogy interviewed, Cristina Vandoros Quilici, vice president of the Association of Educational Psychology, about the importance of drawing in child development. It was a very interesting conversation! I want to begin to address the issue, here on the blog, starting tomorrow, if you have time and inspiration to write about this subject that I love so much.

We schedule a new interview about the game of hide and seek, as present in the lives of children. The subject came up in conversation and not embarked on it not to escape from the agenda and time out of the interview. But I will forward a case that she told me, that gives the idea of the importance of hiding in childhood. She said the child does with a hidden mental preparation.

An example, a warning!

A child of eight years, which could not be literate at all, came to the office of educational psychology and has revealed a story much emblematic of the mysteries of the human mind.

The child had seen a television news story in a suicide. One of those programs where the presenters are cursing everything and everyone and sloppy the screen with blood, a woman died while playing a viaduct. Imagine the hype!

Immediately after hearing the story on television, saw the child’s grandmother was crying on the phone. She repeated in disagreement, “why she did it, my daughter had it all, because she was playing off a bridge? …

The child connected the two stories, the lines of the grandmother and the presenter, and concluded, was her aunt who had died, a victim of suicide.

After following all the dead mess in the house around the tragedy, decided to ask his mother: “Why is that girl’s aunt killed?”. Probably to try and protect the son of a trauma, the mother replied: “She killed herself, she fell by accident, was rappelling and fell.”

Quilici Cristina explained that the child knew the truth, I knew what had happened. But this truth must be hidden and guarded. She transferred it to learning. All she knew was hidden, because I thought I knew everything that was wrong. The child needed a year of treatment “to take the head node” to be able to show what he knew and advance in literacy.

The matter of habit of children playing hide and will surely be much more charming than this sad case. But I thought important to record here because it is a very strong example that learning difficulties may be related to something hidden, closely guarded in a child’s little head.

In this case, failure in school has served to show that a child needed help to overcome trauma. The steps were correct and she went on with your life. In hindsight, it is a sad case, is a happy event: a mother wanted to protect a child, it seems wrong for trying to hide the truth, but continued caring for him until he discovered what had happened and to help you deal with that story .

It is also an important warning: these are TV news should be seen by children. In my opinion, not by adults, but that’s another story!

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Even when there is a dysfunction of the urinary or excretory system, cases of enuresis and encopresis are the result of a link between organic and emotional problems. This is the assessment of a psychologist and psychoanalyst Márcia Regina Ferreira, an expert on the subject. According to her, “the psychic factor is present to give meaning to the organic cause” of these disorders.

According to psychoanalyst, considering the frequency of cases among children and adolescents, “is more expressive enuresis and encopresis is more worrying.”

Enuresis (Urine) is related to the meaning of the child relations of pleasure and displeasure in the exchange of feelings with people.

The encopresis (stool) is called a more “radical”, more disturbing, is more akin to that which causes horror and revulsion.

Culturally, the “living with the pee is easier, more acceptable than the poop. Urine draws attention, it is worth checking. The stool is to have no doubt that something more serious is being reported“He said.

In both cases, the disorders are diagnosed when there is some frequency in episodes of pee and poop in the pants, either during the day or night. Even the famous “getaways”, when children are playing and not stop to pee, deserve attention, even if not so frequent.

The analyst said that tolerance is greater when the child is sleeping, because the control is simpler day and purchased the night before. The automated control, required during sleep, is more time consuming. And not to overburden the child, it is good to take measures that could help her, and does not offer net close to bedtime. In situations of greater difficulty, mothers can take the child to the bathroom during the night so that, gradually, she learns to control.

The training period ended when the child has already acquired sphincter control day and night, or when this process is very stretched, episodes of pee or poop in the pants to report problems begin. Urine and feces are part of children’s language features, serve to show signs that something is wrong with the child.

Not all of the cases of enuresis and encopresis are related to problems developed during the process of acquisition of sphincter control. The pee and poop are imbued with many meanings and the difficulties they may have originated before or after the period of withdrawal of diapers. At any time the child’s life, these disorders in sphincter control may appear. But the very severe training, without caring that this passage deserves, often sequelae.

Limit
Teach your child where and when to pee and poop is part of the menu limits that parents need to provide for children. For the psychoanalyst, like putting limits with love “is the question that everyone needs to keep and bear for the rest of life.” According to her, be strong without being violent is not easy, but is sorely needed. “Being a mother is not easy. The human is complicated! But you must have the conviction that the limit is absolutely key, “he said.

According to psychologist, children with enuresis, in general, insist on keeping in a primary stage, regressed and dependent. But there are those “most rascal”, handling and ensure the presence of the mother through the pee. Anyway, children are not reaching the stage of psychic development of their own age and can not be interested in other things, to prepare properly for new acquisitions.

Shelters
Ferreira Marcia works with children sheltered and the number of cases of enuresis and encopresis between them is very great. According to the psychoanalyst, the situation in the shelters is an important evidence as feces and urine lend themselves to show the precariousness of psychic children.

The disorders frequently affect children under 10 years of age. These are kids who complain, therefore, situations of great distress and even panic. “In a panic situation, to adult peeing my pants!” He said.

The analyst explained that the children suffer neglect or violence were loosely structured psychically because they had a consistent support in the family were not cared for or loved.

According to her, when a 10 year old is playing up to poop in the pants, is because they live in utter lack of harmony with your body. If a boy remains indifferent to the signals it receives from the body, can not give an answer that can have children so small, it is very important that something is happening.

Fart
Marcia Ferreira said it is good to pay attention to the children who fart too loose there. “The very public farting, can we connect that there is an aggression.” According to her, everything revolves around the stool, which is the order of disgusting, can demonstrate how each one deals with the unpleasant. For more than a game turn, this may be a way to put the child out their contradictions and motivations a little love. Adults too!

I propose to discuss here whether or not parents do not respect the privacy of their children when they write a blog like mine, put pictures on social networking sites or just comment on details of their development with family, friends, neighbors, colleagues in work.

The habit of talking about the lives of children, to show how they are grown or cute, and venting about the difficulties with the education of children did not get to the internet. The difference is that the range of words and images, and the speed and breadth of information dissemination increase every day. Between talking to the neighbor at the gate and walk with a faded photograph in the portfolio, as was common before, and publish text, pictures and videos on blogs and social networking sites there is a difference stratospheric.

I address this debate because, in fact, since the decision to create the blog, this is a question constantly reassessed. I will never stop to reflect on the adequacy of the Education and Care. It is not comfortable keeping a blog knowing that my children may not like what I write. I will believe that while this may work to some extent, help to motivate people with the idea of a better childhood for our children.

In the opinion of psychologist Laish Fontenelle, coordinator of Education and Research Project Institute of Child and Consumption Alana, think before you post is essential, since the parents need to assess how the child will feel being represented by them. The child realizes that care and learn from it.

It evaluates the impact of information is different if it is considered positive or negative. As with any person, the child much more likely to feel comfortable in the exposure of a charming discovery which has made the count that she peed the bed till 10 years old. Parents must consider whether the child will like to see in that situation.

“I think parents, caregivers must always be thinking about it, the child is a human being and a human being in development, we have to protect it,” he said.

To the psychologist, know that your story was very scary and can be invasive to a child. But this will depend not only the content but the way it was portrayed. She believes that parents should talk to children about what to count and tell the stories because they live indoors. It is important that your child knows the intention of the parents and the importance of that book to them.

“You can not deny that it is an exhibition. But it’s the way it will be worked by the father with a child who depends on whether it will be good or bad for her, “he said.

The exchange between the parents over the Internet to discover the world of the child and participate in construction of part of the bond with her. The risk, according to Laish Fontenelle, is the diversity and breadth of the global network.

“There are many interesting blogs and talking to parents about children, but in the middle of it all, comes the negative things. Basically, it is difficult to judge and blame the father, he alone to blame for the education of children. We can not deny that today have a formal education that is consumed by parents and children themselves, coming through different media.

For her, the more adults are aware that it is a different world, and we have a “plugged generation”, will be more prepared to lead their children to surf the Internet and teach them to protect his own privacy in the digital space . The children will learn to deal with different media from the attitude of parents, by their example.

While finalizing this paper, I received a comment from Marcia. It’s just about what I’ll talk tomorrow. The Internet has put a giant speaker in the chat that has always existed between relatives, friends, colleagues and even strangers chatting in line at the bank and at the bus stop.

Lais Fontenelle is a psychologist, coordinator of Education and Research Project Institute of Child and Consumption Alana.