Education Guide

I propose to discuss here whether or not parents do not respect the privacy of their children when they write a blog like mine, put pictures on social networking sites or just comment on details of their development with family, friends, neighbors, colleagues in work.

The habit of talking about the lives of children, to show how they are grown or cute, and venting about the difficulties with the education of children did not get to the internet. The difference is that the range of words and images, and the speed and breadth of information dissemination increase every day. Between talking to the neighbor at the gate and walk with a faded photograph in the portfolio, as was common before, and publish text, pictures and videos on blogs and social networking sites there is a difference stratospheric.

I address this debate because, in fact, since the decision to create the blog, this is a question constantly reassessed. I will never stop to reflect on the adequacy of the Education and Care. It is not comfortable keeping a blog knowing that my children may not like what I write. I will believe that while this may work to some extent, help to motivate people with the idea of a better childhood for our children.

In the opinion of psychologist Laish Fontenelle, coordinator of Education and Research Project Institute of Child and Consumption Alana, think before you post is essential, since the parents need to assess how the child will feel being represented by them. The child realizes that care and learn from it.

It evaluates the impact of information is different if it is considered positive or negative. As with any person, the child much more likely to feel comfortable in the exposure of a charming discovery which has made the count that she peed the bed till 10 years old. Parents must consider whether the child will like to see in that situation.

“I think parents, caregivers must always be thinking about it, the child is a human being and a human being in development, we have to protect it,” he said.

To the psychologist, know that your story was very scary and can be invasive to a child. But this will depend not only the content but the way it was portrayed. She believes that parents should talk to children about what to count and tell the stories because they live indoors. It is important that your child knows the intention of the parents and the importance of that book to them.

“You can not deny that it is an exhibition. But it’s the way it will be worked by the father with a child who depends on whether it will be good or bad for her, “he said.

The exchange between the parents over the Internet to discover the world of the child and participate in construction of part of the bond with her. The risk, according to Laish Fontenelle, is the diversity and breadth of the global network.

“There are many interesting blogs and talking to parents about children, but in the middle of it all, comes the negative things. Basically, it is difficult to judge and blame the father, he alone to blame for the education of children. We can not deny that today have a formal education that is consumed by parents and children themselves, coming through different media.

For her, the more adults are aware that it is a different world, and we have a “plugged generation”, will be more prepared to lead their children to surf the Internet and teach them to protect his own privacy in the digital space . The children will learn to deal with different media from the attitude of parents, by their example.

While finalizing this paper, I received a comment from Marcia. It’s just about what I’ll talk tomorrow. The Internet has put a giant speaker in the chat that has always existed between relatives, friends, colleagues and even strangers chatting in line at the bank and at the bus stop.

Lais Fontenelle is a psychologist, coordinator of Education and Research Project Institute of Child and Consumption Alana.